When we are Loving and Joyful, we are opening the door to Infinity. We are many times more likely to transcend problems and be successful in our lives when we have a loving, joyful outlook on life. It may be difficult, given our circumstances, to get to a place of not resisting our circumstances, and that is why it is best to start with an attitude of appreciating the Good that we have in our lives, even if we have to exaggerate or make things up. Your subconscious mind doesn't know the difference between what is "real" and what is fantasy, but if you dwell on mental pictures long enough, you will start to become like the pictures of your visualizations, no matter how creative or destructive they may be.
Here is a You Tube video display of the words from Summer Raven's, "Beware What You Tell Yourself," which was from the "Oneness Space," that came out in the early 1970's: